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Me - ENTP 3w4 so/sp 379 Friend - ENFP 4w5 sx/sp 487 For context, my friend is the first real 4 I've ever met so obv she's a lot. But I want to learn more about how to best communicate with her. What types of compliments, topics, advice, points of persuasion, etc work best for this person? Also, what should I avoid? She's very emotional (Fi+4) so I notice she has a few sensitive spots but I can't find a consistent pattern. Any help would be greatly appreciated!!!!

so, early this morning she was taking a shower, and i decided to walk her dog which i usually do... she was in the shower and i couldnt find the leash, and i didnt want to bother her while showering and having time to herself, so i took the dog on a walk without a leash... i kinda knew she didn't like taking her without a leash, but i did anyways because i couldn't find it. she later got mad when i told her i took her without a leash, but my heart was in the right place because i didn't... INFJ woman (32) snapped at INFP guy (34) because i took her dog on walk without leash - AITAH

And, what are ways that people have been able to change your perspective? Asking for a friend...

I'm looking for raw experience here. I think our minds are all fascinating. 1. What MBTI type do you think you are? If unsure, put unsure. I hope this is as far as we go with referencing MBTI. Don't worry if you answer all of the questions, but you can try to use the questions to probe into what your mind does. Please describe how you experience these things as best you can, ignore the questions and just dive in if needed. I hope we all learn more about ourselves and each other. 2. (a)... How do you experience your own mind?

about five years ago i met this amazing woman, we were just friends but things unexpectedly progressed sexually a few months into knowing her... we went on a trip as friends, had a great time and attraction developed and we eventually were physically intimate. the intimacy was difficult for me to deal with in the coming weeks, because it meant a lot more to me than it did for her.. i thought there were romantic intentions behind it, but she felt differently and just got caught up in the... INFP man (30's) hurt by INFJ woman (30's) back and forth behaviors

How do you deal with emotional people? I mostly result to using de-escalation techniques that include listening, staying calm, and looking for the hidden need. Listening is the number one step in dealing with "unreasonable" people ive found. Everyone wants to feel heard. No progress can take place until the other person feels acknowledged. I try to avoid telling someone who's upset to be quiet and calm down because it will just make him or her irate. But I find it... How do you deal with emotional people?

Say your top 3 personality types in terms of Friends: Lover: 3 types you would want to be that isn´t your own personality type:

I’d appreciate understanding you all better in the area of grudges, thanks!

All types are welcome. The stereotype of SJs is that SJs tend to be highly organized, attentive to neatness and order in their surroundings, and intolerant of clutter. How much of it is true? Do you think that you fit into the stereotype in this respect? How often do you organize your personal belongings? Do you make a plan or just do it spontaneously? - As a Ti type, if I have to do chores on a large scale, such as cleaning every room in my house, I will have to make a plan and... The joys and pains of organizing your belongings ...

Whats your opinion and experience on it? Im an INFP and my spouse is ISTP. The S/N combination was quite a concern for me in the beginning but later on i realized it was a wonderful combination (him being very mature and has a strong Ni and Fe too). I even developed an aversion towards Intuition, especially Ne. Digging into the soil like he does, finding the meaning of life in planting trees...i was really sold. And he anyway gave me so many words of wisdom to chew on. However ive realized... Sensor + intuitive in romantic relationships

Type 8 are know to be very fair, and follow justice. Have you ever break the rule on fairness? How likely for Type 8 to break a fairness rule like this? My husband he a Chemical engineer, and is an Executive at a big engineering corporate. He was giving a list of qualify candidates for the executive assistant role, and he chose a "male" executive assistant out of a list of qualify candidates. To be frank, his reason was because of me, because he knows my anxiety and he wants me to feel... Type 8 have you ever break the rule on fairness? How likely for Type 8 to break a fairness rule like this?

Hey guys. What are some stereotypes that you find incorrect or false about your type? Or Si itself Are Si always focus on ditails? Do you guys really like traditions? Do you prefer routines? Why?